after travelling quite a while

Our rural India is such a beautiful proposition. Not only from business point of view, but also from the point of view of a getaway holiday. As I sit in this now lonely Shalimar society of Baroda, I remember the beautiful silence emanating from the environs of SBIRD, Hyderabad. Even there, lot of mosquitoes were there to give us company, and not only that, it had the same weird presence of a rural, dark yet peaceful surroundings. (Oh what a far cry of the ever noisy Mumbai. )
But, whenever we think of ourselves and the turning points that we left behind us, its not the abstract nature that alone occupies the hot seat in our mind. It’s the people that we met along. Its all about people. And as somebody rightly said, “Jaisa desh vaisa bhes”. Like country, like people. People who have never seen mountains will never know the joy of looking at a towering peak of a snow-clad mountain, at every leisurely glance. And people who have never travelled in local trains of Mumbai will never learn the skill of “give and take” with as much acumen as that of Mumbaikars. Its such a grandiose thought to miss it-that change the environment and you will see a changed person. Whenever you find yourself puzzled by the queer nature of anyone, make sure you search his background and his future path. More often than not, you will find the answer in his ecology. As far as I can stretch the meaning of a particular word to include its various possible individual interpretations, I will use the word ecology in a much wider sense, not just to include the geography, history or economy of his region but also to include the kind of values that his culture cherishes. All these factors do make a lot of difference. Of course, in order to grasp the real essence of what I said just now, one needs a bit know-how of the psychological fundamentals, which most of us know. It’s the behavioural school of psychology, which propounds that a person is shaped by his environment. The environment encourages and discourages certain behaviours, and the person in an attempt to patch up with the environment, adjusts himself nicely and snuggly fits into the larger picture. That gives him a sense of belonging. Well, ‘sense of belonging’ is again an epic in itself and we will come back to it later.
So, that’s what happens and lemme tell you -its tough to resist the mould of the society.

Culture shock is a point of relevance in this context. For people who have been moving since long, would know how people change with change in ecology. And that’s the reason why, you will find all kinds of people. Good-bad, beautiful-ugly, intelligent-morons, miser – generous etc. We often idealise people or outrightly criticise them, we either leave them or shudder at the thought of leaving them. People are not your creations to be filled with your colours. They are other’s creations and even though accepting them would be like living out a nightmare, it is best to understand their mould. Not that everyone should thoroughly read reams of papers on the human psyche (and get psychic in the process). But just as we today know all about bacteria and other histopathologic stuff, we should also have a brief yet concrete picture of a human being. And a disastrous picture can lead to disastrous consequences. If we bracket a person,we will only have mud in our hands. Think.